A woman’s brain changes after she becomes a mother in the literal sense. Scientists found that the amount of gray matter increases in moms’ brains 4 months after giving birth. But that’s not the only change. Their whole life changes and turns into a full-time job. We all need to take a vacation from any job we have and this one is no exception. As strange as it may sound, mothers need to take a break from their precious children.
We at Bright Side understand how hard being a mother can be. And that’s why we’ve decided to direct your attention to the importance of taking breaks from your kids.
When children appear in a woman’s life they become the focus and there’s less time left for a mom’s needs. But this is not a reason for the mother to forget about herself and her rest. It may seem wrong to leave the kids and take a break from them but it’s not.
This doesn’t mean that the mother is bad, it means that the mother wants happiness for herself and her family. It’s possible to choose any vacation: a trip to the beach, a weekend with friends outside the city, or just spending a night at the bestie’s house. The main thing is to be without children and spend time on herself.
A mom gets very tired when she constantly does the housework and resolves issues related to the lives of her children. This fatigue can develop stress and spoil her mood which affects the overall atmosphere in the house. Therefore, a mother’s vacation is good not only for her but for the whole family.
She will be able to cope with her duties more easily, without breaking down on others, and handle the next prank her child pulls with a smile after she returns home. She will be well-rested, full of strength, and will be glad to be with her babies again.
Mothers love their children unconditionally. But let’s be honest, they get tired of them. And if a mom goes on vacation, it will positively affect her relationship with her children and the family. When our loved ones are far away, we start to miss and appreciate them more. That is what happens during a mother’s absence.
The family begins to appreciate what she does for them and impatiently waits for her to come back. She, in turn, misses home and wants to return sooner. As a result, she changes her attitude toward duties from “must” to “want” and makes the next breakfast for her kids with pleasure because she lacked this during her vacation.
Rest time is an opportunity for a mom to focus on herself and think about what she wants. When was the last time you thought about your state of mind and not about if the baby needs a new toy? A caring mother takes care of herself.
This doesn’t mean that we urge mommies to spend the entire family budget on a new dress and luxury rest. We just suggest they take at least a couple of days off from motherhood and stop being a mom along with constant thoughts about what she needs to do around the house. This will help her to know herself better and will bring harmony to her soul.
Moms deserve a vacation. And don’t blame her for the fact that she wants to be without the children for a bit. And she herself doesn’t need to feel guilty for this desire. It’s time to drop doubts and calm down. The children will be fine and the partner will take the mother’s place and understand better what she has to do every day.
Remember that she’s not only a mother but also a woman who needs to have fun with her friends, relax, and recharge with energy. So if you’re a mom, feel free to go on vacation and gain new strengths to help with your beloved and dear work, motherhood.
Have you ever had a vacation without your kids? Do you think it’s better to take a vacation without kids or with them? Describe your experience and opinion in the comments.
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15 Random People Who Look So Much Like Celebrities, You May Want to Take a Photo With Them
It’s not an easy goal to meet a real celebrity in our everyday life. Sometimes they are too busy with their activities or simply prefer to avoid public places. But when you see one right in front of you, don’t be too quick to jump over the moon and ask for a photo. Try to check their IDs first, because we are ready to show you that there are too many ordinary people who look just like stars and who probably wouldn’t miss a chance to pose and giggle afterward.
We at Bright Side compared photos of celebrities to their clones to demonstrate that this isn’t a joke. IDs first, photos after.
15. Kylie Jenner and Kristen Hancher, but which is which?
14. “My dad actually does Jack Nicholson lookalike work in Hollywood as a hobby.”
13. Breaking news! It seems Kim Kardashian has cloned herself.
12. “This fella lives in my house. I think James Franco and he follow each other on Instagram.”
11. “My sister always gets asked if she’s Julia Stiles.”
10. Nope, those aren’t just 2 pictures of Steve Buscemi!
9. Here’s chance for those who are upset that Michael Fassbender is married.
8. We’re just interested to see if Meghan Trainor’s double has the same talents.
7. We know this is pretty unexpected for Taylor Lautner, but we can’t unsee it.
6. This girl claims that she gets compared to Katy Perry daily.
5. When Chuck Norris is on vacation.
4. “Never mind, I’ll find someone like Adele.”
3. If Cobie Smulders doesn’t want to shoot How I Met Your Mother 10, there’s a perfect replacement out there.
2. Wait, so you’re saying that isn’t Zooey Deschanel on the right?
1. Even Zach Galifianakis and Jonah Hill can see this resemblance.
Do you have any friends who look exactly like movie stars? Show us their photos!
Research Says That People Who Blush Are More Generous and Trustworthy
Some people feel uncomfortable when they blush, because they believe that this reaction of their body makes them appear timid and insecure. However, the reality is very different, because blushing can make us look more sincere and trustworthy to other people.
Today, we at Bright Side would like to tell you why blushing is not a sign of weakness, as many used to think.
Humans are the only ones that blush.
Humans are the only species known to blush, according to the findings of Darwin. After observing the gestures of monkeys, while conducting his studies on evolution — he defined this reaction as “the most peculiar and the most human of all expressions,” that probably happens because of a social defense mechanism that humans create against feelings like guilt or shame.
It makes you more attractive to the opposite sex.
The truth is that, although it could be a social defense mechanism that speaks to our discomfort, we are more attractive when our cheeks begin to turn pink. This gesture reflects a bit of vulnerability, and it’s for that very reason that it also creates a sense of intimacy that is striking to the opposite sex. In addition, it makes us look radiant, which is why, when putting on makeup, we apply pink powder on our cheeks.
People who blush are more trustworthy.
According to a study that has been published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, people who blush easily are people who are considered to be trustworthy and more generous, compared to those who don’t react in the same way. The researchers of this study also claim that other forms of moderately expressing embarrassment and social vulnerability are true signs of virtue, since it’s not possible to reproduce these reactions voluntarily.
Other gestures that reveal our emotional state
In a series of experiments, 60 college students were videotaped recounting embarrassing moments. The results indicated that blushing generates trust in other people and that’s why we shouldn’t try to hide it. This investigation includes people who react with gestures like a downward gaze, covering their face, laughing involuntarily, and blushing at the slightest provocation.
Why we blush when we feel embarrassed
Our face turns red because when we are in an embarrassing situation, the body releases adrenaline, which is what causes the redness of the skin, as it increases the blood flow to the blood vessels. This process is linked to our sympathetic nervous system and, for this reason, we can’t control it. We can also feel our heart rate speed up, our breathing increase its frequency, and in some people it can cause them to start sweating.
When it comes to blushing, it’s impossible to lie.
Blushing is something that we, human beings, are unable to avoid. It’s a set of involuntary bodily functions that are unleashed when we are exposed to a situation that embarrasses us, although not always in an unpleasant way. But it always shows that something matters to us and that, if we’ve done something wrong, we do have the desire to fix it. Because of this, this reaction is linked to honesty. So, if you see your partner blushing, you should believe in what your eyes are seeing.
Do you blush very often? Do you find it embarrassing or is it something that doesn’t worry you too much? We’d love to hear your thoughts in the comment section below.
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